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What you will—and won't—find in this book.
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Educational Value
some
George R.R. Martin creates a medieval fantasy world that is nearly overwhelmingly rich in detail. He aims to provide a more "realistic" kind of saga, upending clichés and providing viewpoints of unusual characters.
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Positive Messages
a little
Tradition is important, and promises should be kept. It's better to face a problem head-on than to deny that you're in trouble.
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Positive Role Models
some
In A Game of Thrones and its sequels, author George R. R. Martin rarely shows only one side of his characters' personalities. Few of them are all good or all bad. He clearly sympathizes with the members of the Stark family, but each of them is also capable of accessing a dark side.
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Violence & Scariness
a lot
From its first scene to its last, A Game of Thrones contains violence, which often strikes without warning to the guilty and the innocent alike. There are beheadings, sword fights, wolf attacks, rapes, and death by molten gold. A young boy is thrown out a window. No character is ever safe, and the graphic details of their injuries or deaths are usually provided.
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Sex, Romance & Nudity
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Although not as prevalent as violence, sex plays a large part in A Game of Thrones and its sequels. Cersei and Jaime Lannister engage in an incestuous relationship. Tyrion falls in love with a courtesan. Barely in her teens, Daenerys Targaryen enters into a sexual relationship with an older man before marrying him and becoming pregnant with his child. Sometimes such encounters are described in graphic detail.
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Language
a lot
Think of a swear word, and it's probably used in A Song of Fire and Ice at some point, from "damn" and "bastard" to "c--t" and "f--k."
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Drinking, Drugs & Smoking
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Adults and teens drink alcohol at court and in pubs.
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Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that A Song of Fire and Ice -- adapted for the popular and very mature TV series Game of Thrones -- is a seven-volume fantasy saga by George R.R. Martin, of which only the first five volumes have been published as of April 2016. Set in a magical version of the Middle Ages, it chronicles the exploits of the Stark, Baratheon, Lannister, and Targaryen families as they struggle for power in a deadly civil war. Violence percolates through nearly every scene, including sword fights, beheadings, rapes, wolf attacks, death by molten gold, and more. Sexual content includes an incestuous relationship between a brother and a sister, the marriage of an older man to a teen girl, and a prince's love affair with a courtesan. The language is predictably rough, ranging from "hell" and "damn" to "f--k" and "c--t." If the books were rated as movies are, they would receive a "hard R."
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Dan Andreeson Adult
January 23, 2020
age 14+
A good read, but be cautious
The book is an overall very good read, and hard to put down at certain points. While it does contain violence, sex, etc, the descriptions are not nearly as graphic as in the show and usually very brief. The sex scenes are not worded as they usually are in other books and the language is not anything a teen would hear at school. It is a very engrossing book, but it ultimately depends on the maturity of the child in question.
Larnell J. Adult
July 2, 2023
age 10+
Amazing dark fantasy with great rich story.
I think kids are a lot more mature than most adults and parents give them credit for. Though many children and adolescents seem to have a sense of humor that may seem to make them not old enough for certain things. I find that if we look back to our childhood days we will find that we were way more mature than adults. As an adult I know how scary it may seem to teach your child to be safe and smart sexuality, sexual activity and looking and consuming contents of gore and violence, however if we do not teach children about this they will pick it up at school and learn the wrong things on their own without help or support. If we don't teach are kids at an appropriate age about these things. They may resort to the sexual actions and violence in this book such as incest and murder if they do not know it is wrong. The last factor is to get to know exactly how mature your child is because age doesn't matter in this matter. Maturity is about how mature your child is not how old the child is. This book is an amazing read and sparked my love for the fantasy genre as a child.
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What's the Story?
After his predecessor is murdered, Eddard Stark reluctantly agrees to serve as "the Hand" to his good friend, King Robert Baratheon. His honorable decision has far-reaching consequences for his family. After King Robert dies, the Seven Kingdoms of Westeros are plunged into civil war, thanks to the plotting of the Lannisters, and the Stark children and their mother are scattered in all directions. Each must find a new way to survive in a rapidly changing world, even as magic grows stronger, a new peril approaches the Wall that protects the kingdoms, and the threat of the ultimate weapon -- tame dragons -- grows in the East.
Is It Any Good?
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There have been many fantasy sagas published in the last half century, but few can boast the scope, depth, and attention to detail of A SONG OF FIRE AND ICE. George R. R. Martin is a master plotter, moving his huge cast of characters from one harrowing situation to the next and keeping readers anxious and surprised again and again. Some of the first five volumes work better than others (A Feast for Crows leaves many readers disappointed), but all add new elements that only increase the complex richness of the narrative.
This book series is certainly not for sensitive readers. The language is rough, the violence is brutal, and the sexual content sometimes veers into the perverse (including brother-sister incest). But readers with the maturity to handle adult material will be amply rewarded. Martin is a serious storyteller of the first order, and A Song of Fire and Ice is his masterwork.
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Book Details
- Author: George R.R. Martin
- Genre: Fantasy
- Topics: Magic and Fantasy, Adventures, Brothers and Sisters, Monsters, Ghosts, and Vampires
- Book type: Fiction
- Publisher: Bantam Books
- Publication date: March 30, 1996
- Publisher's recommended age(s): 15 - 18
- Number of pages: 835
- Available on: Paperback, Nook, Audiobook (unabridged), Hardback, iBooks, Kindle
- Last updated: September 19, 2021
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